暑期前, 是對自己過份樂觀的估計
暑假時, 發現有少數事的確完成了,卻沒有達到預期效果
亦有更多是未有完成
有時更後悔自己錯過了一些自己根本沒有想過做的事
暑假中期, 是會考放榜---又是一次的打擊
我嘗試觀察身邊成功的人,發覺他們都有一種態度:
不擔心自己做得不夠完美, 只避免自己做得差和沒有做好本份
雖然以上結論沒有經過嚴謹的推敲過程,但總令我聯想到handbook第4頁尾:for a man to conquer himself is the first and best of all victories
我相信appreciating "the best victory" 都要求瞭解自己的真正能力, 瞭解自己在甚麼位置。了解自己本身就是一種能力.。利用這種能力做事便是 being pragmatic-務實。加上專業精神辦事,就能做好自己本份。改變了態度,從而接納自己。儘管是挫折亦能從容面對。
我亦想起羅sir 苦口婆心地提點我們"放眼世界、睇遠d""。Indeed, the more exposure you have, the broader your horizons are. Look at the people around you. Very often they overcome their hurdles by diligence and peseverance, not by fluke. These are inspring stories that keep you moving on.
Attitude is a small thing, but it can make a big difference.
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